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by Kaitlyn
(Norwalk Ohio USA)

When I was 2, I was in a car accident with my dad, going to get my mom from work. We went to stop and another car didn't stop.

They hit us. we weren't hurt. But it was bad.

And it all was because of snow.

Barry's Response - I sorry to hear about that Kaitlyn. If you were only two years old, I'm quite surprised how well you remember it. Most people don't have clear memories from when they were two years old. It's more common to have few or no memories until around three or four. Scientists are still researching why this is. Our memories from childhood can be unreliable, because they can be influenced by later experiences and information. It is usually the repeated experiences and activities, like family vacations and activities, that stick with us.

Young children often don't remember traumatic events in a lot of detail because their brains aren't fully developed yet. So memories from early childhood are usually not very clear or complete. Children may not remember traumatic events they experienced, but they may still have feelings or impressions of them. These feelings may be expressed later on in life as fears, anxiety, or other emotions. The way children understand and react to traumatic events depends on their age and level of development. This can include support from mental health professionals, family members, and friends. It is also important to provide a safe and secure environment for them to express their feelings and talk about the experience.

Continuing my psychological exploration

- People tend to adopt more cautious or risk-averse behavior when faced with uncertain or ambiguous situations, which is called snow driving in psychology. The term "snow driving" comes from studies about drivers in snowy or icy conditions, when they slow down and drive more cautiously because of the increased risk of accidents. It's been applied to other situations where people may be uncertain or anxious, like decision-making or social interactions.

- Snow driving is related to risk perception, which is how people perceive and evaluate risks. Driving in the snow can be seen as an adaptive behavior, where people adjust their behavior to minimize risk and maximize safety.

- Snow driving isn't always the best response to uncertainty or risk. Some situations call for taking calculated risks or being more assertive. The best approach depends on the situation and your values and goals.

Fear of the unknown, I think

Snow driving and other cautious or risk-averse behaviors can certainly be influenced by fear of the unknown. When faced with uncertainty or ambiguity, people may feel anxious or fearful because they don't know what to expect. As a result, they might act more cautiously or avoidantly.

Fear of the unknown is a common human emotion that can be triggered by new or unfamiliar situations. Be aware of how your behavior and decisions are impacted by this fear. Taking risks and stepping outside your comfort zone can lead to new opportunities.Driving in the snow (or in any other uncertain or risky situation) means being aware of the potential hazards and taking steps to minimize risk, while also being flexible and adaptable.

The snow caused the collision? Maybe. But the
government and the insurance industry would argue that the liability rests with the driver who did not adjust his style to the road conditions.

That's what usually happens, anyway.

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